Be Encouraged to think upon the positive: Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy- think about such things. (Philippians 4:8 NIV)
Negativity only brings more negativity. I have the choice to speak positively or not. I may not agree with everyone, but my desire is to speak words that bring life, words that build up and not tear down.