Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
(Proverbs 18: 24 NASB)
Who doesn’t want encouragement but, when harsh words are hurled instead, it hurts. How should I respond? I could sling the same unkind words but what kind of fruit would that bring? I want to bring life into relationships.
The tongue is an unruly thing. It can speak death or life, kindness or unkindness. It is up to me to stop, and think, before I respond to harsh words.
Be Encouraged! Each one of us can discipline ourselves. It is up to us to choose words that encourage. It takes practice.